i hate my aunt

[firegirl05]

i have an aunt who stays w/ us all the time and i completely hate her...she always puts me down and makes me feel like **** and like im worthless, and like whenever i do s/t wrong she jumps on me 4 it- e/o in my fam hates her cuz shes like it 2 e/o but i feel like she's worse 2 me...she has a rly hard life, like 4 husbands in one year and im the type of person 2 feel bad 4 a/o like that but i just dont have it in me 2 feel bad 4 her b/c of how horrible she is...she always has her comments 2 igve on a/t i say or do or even look like...i know im not pretty, but im definitely not as ugly as she makes me out 2 be, or like i know i have friends and i know im not a mean horrible person, but when i listen 2 her i feel liek i am or like i have no friends, or like that the only good thing i cud ever do is jump off a wall or s/t...u kno wut i mean? anyways...i dont kno wut 2 do abt her and i tried 2 tlk 2 my mom abt it but she sed i know u have 2 live w/ it...

[Dontknow]

Thats rough. I feel your pain though. My grandma enjoys telling me im fat, among other things. I used to be a bit chubby, but not fat. I recently lost alot of weight though and she didnt even say anything- she only likes to tell my siblings and me, and my mom, the bad things about us. she rarely says good things. Then when my siblings and i dont want to visit her she doesnt understand. unfortunately though, it is something u kind of just have to suck it up. it sucks. Believe me i know. U can try avoiding her as much as possible. thats what i try to do when i spend a holiday with my grandparents. But then my grandmother gets mad... cant ever win. But just know ur not alone, and ur aunt prob has her own troubles and is just taking it out on u. dont let it get to u. its not worth it.

[SNs]

ugh. my moms like that. my solution....
headphones+locked door

[Goinup]

awesome solution SNs... yeah, i would say just ignore it, and know that u really are a great person, no matter what stupid people say

[Blink]

ignore her comments
i have a great rule for life, IGNORE THE IDIOTS AND FOOLS IN THE WORLD!

or u cud ask her to her face (in a semi-aggresive manner) why she enjoys insulting u, ask her if it makes her life seem so much better by putting others down? say it to her face, it will take guts but the truth shud shock her in to shutting teh hell up, once u do that, u can take on the aggresive stance and give her dirty looks every time u see her.