i always get picked on

[lifesux01]

i go to a very jappy jewish school and its all about the looks there. boys there only go for the skiny girls and well im not the most fit person. boys tell me to my face that i just need to loose weight. my sister also tells me im fat all the time. im going through an eating disorder. i barly eat at all accauly and all the time i just feel weak and really out of it, ive started failing in school because i cant concentrate so well. ive tryed so many diet plans in the past but none of them worked. ive finaly started to loose weight but i just dont think its enough. within a month and a half i lost 10 pounds maybe a few more. i tryed to eat but i just cant i feel sick when i do and i just wanna throw up when i do, and somtimes it does come up. im under even more presure at home, i just dont know how to ignor the kids at school who call me fat

[whuknu]

i go to a very jappy jewish school and its all about the looks there. boys there only go for the skiny girls and well im not the most fit person. boys tell me to my face that i just need to loose weight. my sister also tells me im fat all the time. im going through an eating disorder. i barly eat at all accauly and all the time i just feel weak and really out of it, ive started failing in school because i cant concentrate so well. ive tryed so many diet plans in the past but none of them worked. ive finaly started to loose weight but i just dont think its enough. within a month and a half i lost 10 pounds maybe a few more. i tryed to eat but i just cant i feel sick when i do and i just wanna throw up when i do, and somtimes it does come up. im under even more presure at home, i just dont know how to ignor the kids at school who call me fat
Well isnt it funny that in a JEWISH school its all about material?
First Im gonna tell you something that you may or may not have heard in the past, any boy that ever tells you anything like that is just a jerk and doesnt deserve anyone except for maybe someone as shallow as he. Dont listen to these boys, please...
(NOTE TO BOYS: never ever ever call a girl fat, even if she is, its not a good idea)
As for ur sister, well just ignore her, dont know what with her, maybe shes jealous of u for something else, or some ppl are just like- someone in my family always tells me im fat or not smart, etc, I just ignore that person bc i know its not true.
As for ur not eating, thats not so safe, Im sure u know that its dangerous. Please dont do that to urself- u prob realize thats what is causing u to feel week all the time. its actually so dangerous that i suggest that u seek proffesional help. if you dont know where to turn, u should go to the coaches corner where rabbi shu would be more than happy (I cant talk for him but im sure he would be, i mean its his job!) to help u find someone to help u deal with this.

[SNs]

this post is not a how-to become anorexic post, its just for her, in her situation this is the advice she needs, i dont mean to offend anyone

in order to start eating again u have to start small, with light foods, and build up to eating normally bc otherwize, like u said, u'll end up really nausous and throw it up. i dunno what u eat allready, but eat lot of vegetables and fruit, and other health food stuff.. whole wheat bread. not diatetic, healthy. u should also take vitamins to help give u the nutrition ur losing. they'll also help u concentrate. u should also eat something low cal. every few hours. somehting like 70 calories..i would suggest a cup of fruit cus it has sugar and will boost ur energy. eating every few hours will help u not feel weak and will boost ur metabolism and for almost no calories.

[smile]

i go to a very jappy jewish school and its all about the looks there. boys there only go for the skiny girls and well im not the most fit person. boys tell me to my face that i just need to loose weight. my sister also tells me im fat all the time. im going through an eating disorder. i barly eat at all accauly and all the time i just feel weak and really out of it, ive started failing in school because i cant concentrate so well. ive tryed so many diet plans in the past but none of them worked. ive finaly started to loose weight but i just dont think its enough. within a month and a half i lost 10 pounds maybe a few more. i tryed to eat but i just cant i feel sick when i do and i just wanna throw up when i do, and somtimes it does come up. im under even more presure at home, i just dont know how to ignor the kids at school who call me fat Hey sweetheart,

Listen... I went through exactly what you're going through now. My parents and kids in school verbally abused me all the time about being overweight. Bulimia is a horrible disease that i battled with as well. It burned my throat and esophagus so much that I started to feel and taste blood in my throat. Please don't let it get to that.... try stopping before damaging yourself so much.

First of all... verbal abuse is very hurtful and just an extremely horrible thing. The way i got through it is just ignoring them. I believed them of course... but i didn't let them penetrate me so emotionally. You know what you can also do? Try using their negative comments as positive. When someone tells you that you're overweight... think of it like, "Oh he's trying to help me lose weight by making me aware." I know that for years when i was extremely overweight, I alway denied that i needed to lose weight... this made it extremely painful for me when people said it to my face. Accept your problem and you're halfway to conquering it.

Now for the Bulimia problem. Like the other person said before.... start off with eating a little... do not binge! just eat little amount throughout the day. Eating 6 or 7 small meals a day will definitely help you with the nausea and energy. Also small meals digest A LOT faster which speeds up your metabolism. You must understand how much damage Bulimia can do.

Now... for losing weight. This is how i lost weight.... I gradually stopped throwing up and started eating small meals throughout the day. I literally locked myself in my room with loud music and just rocked out. I just would do anything to music... jump, make up little dance routines, sit ups and pushups, leg lifts. Excersise is KEY. The reason someone gains weight is because they eat more than they need to... a human eats for energy... and if you aren't using up all that energy... then it stores itself as fat. So essentially.... you can eat whatever you want... as long as it's SMALL portions, in moderation, and you burn more than you consume.

I really hope i helped you. If you have any questions about my struggling with this particular situation.. please don't hesitate to ask.

[Blink]

if ur having problems eating, speak to ur dr. ppl have seriously ruined their lives by not dealing with this kind of thing. stay in there, we're all here to listen

[lifesux01]

thanks, well accualy this was posted a while ago, my eating is alot better but still could be better. and thank you im so happy that i have people here i can talk to